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Choose
Select activities that could work for you both.
Make an invitation to meet differently
Make Friends & Fire
For minds that meet differently, connection starts with an invitation. Design your kind of together, create invitations and conversations that fit how you want to connect, with family, flames, friends and first-time meets.
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Make
Turn it into a personal invitation.
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Invite
Send it and give them clear choices.
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Meet up
Meet differently, in a way that works for you both.
Start a Conversation
Get words when the first words are the hardest
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Make Friends & Fire has no revenue model and is offered free of charge.
An invitationmaker, activity tool and conversationstarter, built by neurodivergent people.
For dating, friendship and spending time together: find activity ideas, make a personal invitation, and give the other person clear ways to choose and respond. Not a matching platform - you already have someone in mind you want to deepen or strengthen a connection with. Create a unique invitation for them and make your move!
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Find out how it works, get ideas for your connection, or dive into the story behind it.
How it works
See how an activity idea becomes a personal invitation.
Looking for ideas for your connection?
Ideas for dating, friendship or simply spending time together.
Want to go a little deeper?
Practical guides, why we made Make Friends & Fire, and the full story.