Find something that gives the invitation a shape
Explore activities across playful, calm, creative, active, conversational and many other categories. You can start with a concrete idea instead of an abstract “we should hang out.”
Neurodivergent friendship
Neurodivergent friendship: make it easier to actually do something together
Friendship often lives in small moments: asking someone to go somewhere, try something, talk, play, make or simply spend time together. Make Friends & Fire helps turn that intention into an invitation that is easier to choose and answer.
Invite without forcing one answer
Put more than one possibility into the invitation. Your friend can choose what appeals to them, suggest something else or add their own message.
Useful for new and existing friendships
The tool can support a first invitation, reconnecting with someone or simply making it easier for established friends to decide what to do next.
Frequently asked questions
Is Make Friends & Fire only for dating?
No. Friendship is a central use case. The activity library, invitation maker and response tools work just as well for platonic plans.
Can a group of friends respond?
Yes. Group invitation links can collect separate responses from multiple participants.
Can people use it without identifying as neurodivergent?
Yes. The tools are open to anyone. Neurodivergent experiences influenced the design, but the product is not restricted by identity or diagnosis.
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Turn an idea into a real invitation
Find something you could enjoy together, make it personal, and give the other person a clear way to choose and respond.
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